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Category Archives: Engineering Love

This conflict resolution thing

I remembered ending many conversations when there was clearly a problem in which I said, “Yeah, she was way too hung up about it,” or something along the lines of, “I don’t really get why someone would react that way. It’s so overwhelming.” Overacting. Over board. Overwhelming. All those stupid questions. As I look back [...]

5 months ago.

Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for truth. — Benjamin Disraeli I believed in this. I still do. I look at my baby niece and she’s so defiant. Her emotions are so raw and unfiltered, her sadness is so painful to look at, her anger is so fierce, her happiness [...]

25 And Over

Reblogging from Tomatonation If you have reached the age of 25, I have a bit of bad news for you, to wit: it is time, if you have not already done so, for you to emerge from your cocoon of post-adolescent dithering and self-absorption and join the rest of us in the world. Past the [...]

Sleep don’t weep

Let me tell you a story. I’m not sure what you’ll get out of this story, but I assure you like all stories it took a while to make. It took an entire year to make. And I like it. To the date. I didn’t think much about this, to be honest, I rather for [...]

Month review- with pictures

I’ve been nothing but unproductive last month and I absolutely love it. I’ll admit it, but I definitely couldn’t do this anymore and so, now alas starts the productive mode. Here’s what’s been keeping me busy. My “second cousin” [that sounds so weird] got married and so, that started the kick-off of summer’s wedding season. [...]

It fit mine.

  Okay, I’m a bit cheesy today.  Just a bit.

:-/

I’m slightly scared.  I’m horrified.  I’m completely clueless.    I want to take this issue and be rational about it, but every time I think to sit and actually think about it, I end up thinking about something else, because there is nothing like fear to drive you to think of something else, other than [...]

Collectivism

| land side |, originally uploaded by | Kmye |.   I return to my first love, soon. I’ll get to dance in the rain, stomp on rain puddles. I’ll get to feel the sun kiss my cheeks and the sugar cane stalks sway in the wind. I’ll get to smell the earth, I’ll get [...]

You’re so stalkable

A few of my friends let it slip in random conversations things I haven’t stated to them directly but are floating around randomly in the web. “Ok, fine…I’ll admit it, I stalk your facebook, your everything online” N said. Coyly she said, “I’ve even googled you!” I smiled, as she stated the followup comment, “If [...]

While doing some spring cleaning

Last year, when R and I were stuck in the snowmageddon of Canada, we made a list of random stuff we would do for the new year. It was only today, that I found the tiny note pad as I was organizing my desk. Here’s the list: 1) Indoor skydiving [ We saw a sign [...]

If only they knew…

My mind has had a ball coming up with the random dreams. Being medicated means, awesome, mind boggling stories that I didn’t even think I could come up with. I’m my own slumdog millionarie. Ok, fine, I’m the millionarie than went from slummy to back to my princess role. A ha. I thought I made [...]


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